Why Men Cheat and Women Do It Better
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What to look forward to in the book:
Five golden myths about cheating.
12 reasons why men cheat.
Six reasons why you are cheated on.
Four reasons why women cheat.
Eight reasons why women are better at cheating.
10 common mistakes to avoid in a relationship.
15 tricks used by cheaters.
Author(s): Lunga Ntuli
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